I’m pretty good at remaining friends with my exes because I’ve always considered them friends before lovers. They’re all great in their own right, in my eyes, otherwise I wouldn’t have gotten together with them in the first place! And that makes me possessive of them, as friends, because I would like to remain friends and I always continue to hope and wish the best for them. Strangely though, I noticed recently that I’ve been unceremoniously FB-deleted by one of them, a good 3 years after we broke up!? If it’s the work of a jealous girfriend, I advise high caution ahead. Only deeply insecure women can’t get past the fact that everyone’s entitled to have a past. God didn’t stick couples together the instant they were born after all.